PERMISSIONS FOR AND USAGE OF THIS WEBSITE

INDIVIDUALS. Individuals may use this website without cost or limits, since its purpose is to aid people in the process of creating the abilities to fully live life. They might also wish to use this with various advisors.

PROFESSIONALS. Professionals may use this website freely for use with their clients but may not use the materials for profit, publishing, etc. in any way other than specified herein.

We would encourage professionals (counselors, coaches, even business managers) to use the programs (learning plans, sequences, etc.) in order to provide clients with a systematic means of making their lives more effective. The advantage to the professional is that he or she will have several programs that have successive steps to go through with the client, where the professionals can provide providing ongoing value and guidance. Otherwise, I've noticed, some relationships are relatively short and incomplete (in my opinion). Clients experience a gain from coaching, feel a bit better and then stop, prematurely, in my opinion. Typically, they will have "solved" (actually just relieved the pressure short term) the immediate part of their most pressing psychological or life problem. The materials herein are intended to allow the client to continue on to a deeper solution, one which you can contribute value to without feeling a conflict of interest in billing for more than a few limited hours.

See the Learning Plans and various programs for sequencing. As you develop a sequencing or learning plans for your use with clients, we would appreciate your sharing them, as we are looking for the best way to involve people in completing what they really need to complete.

YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS ARE REQUESTED!!!!

Whether you are a professional or an individual who would like to contribute to helping others, we would appreciate your contributions and you will get full credit for them, if you wish. The key criteria are usability, practicality, efficiency in terms of being to the point in the most brief way. Simply attach the document, with your information within the document to an e-mail. We'll look at it and post it to the website if it appears to be useful for the site's users.

WHY HAVE "FULL", SEQUENCED PROGRAMS?

Because people do not follow through if there is no program or "next step".

Following a sequenced program permits one to be sure to finish each and all of the steps necessary to actually "complete" in an area. Without completion, the problem underneath the immediate problem simply resurfaces (as you know).

Often, coaching is just done to solve an immediate problem (the motivating factor) and to get the client moving. Coaching typically stops after the initial three or six month contract because there is no "next step."

For instance, a coach or counselor could have a set of programs (not necessarily in this sequence) that carries the client along a path of a series of completions such as:

Handling the BASIC CONCERNS and problems (creating a program to do so).

Developing PSYCHOLGICALl skills and methods to serve one to have

a better life.

Upset and emotional management

Stress management

Developing a program and monitoring the progress in the PHYSICAL

area

Developing LIFE MANAGEMENT skills

What is the most productive way to manage one's life

Problem solving

Thinking and learning

Planning

Short term

Long term

Values planning, purpose/mission, how then shall I live?

Practices installed to keep one on track instead of the inevitable on

and off pattern

Utilizing the Gratitude/Reminders/Inspiration system tools

Developing a program and installing the skills to better handle

RELATIONHIPS

Blame, criticism, make wrong

Communication methods/forms, etc. that facilitate understanding

and problem resolution

Creating the relationship you want - purpose, mission, values,

agreements

Managing the material and fFINANCIAL aspects of life