We are happy to have you join us in this process of systematically building the life you want, one in which you can fully experience being happy and fulfilled - loving the life you live and creating even more of the life you love.
Most people, it seems, do not "finish" the construction of the foundation of their lives - their philosophies, their plans, their thinking, the way they really want to live their lives and what would best have them do that...
This website is designed to have you FINISH THE CONSTRUCTION OF YOUR LIFE'S FOUNDATION and the walls and the roof such that you have a "LifeHome" that fully supports you in feeling complete, very certain, and very grounded so that you can live a powerfully satisfying life.
We've looked for a complete system for planning, constructing, and/or reconstructing (or greatly remodeling) one's life, but we could not find one. So, we've designed this one to do that, for and with you.
The website is designed to be
1. VERY PRACTICAL
I've tested out much of this myself and/or have done research, so that I've eliminated what has not been proven to be effective and those things that I think are impractical or unproductive, even though they are practiced by some professionals. I've included some things that people may have excluded because of prejudices, false beliefs or just plain lack of awareness, but which have proven effectiveness. Workability is the key criterion.
2. TO SAVE YOU LOTS OF TIME
You won't have to find or figure out what to do. Even the worksheets are designed to provide alternatives so that you don't have to think of them yourself and so that you can take advantage of the "thinking out" that has already been done, as you'll find that most people have similar thoughts, needs, fears, problems, challenges, etc.
The QuikLearn modules and even the regular written pieces are boiled down to the central substance, eliminating the fillers and the necessity for you to go through so much to find what you want.
3. TO BE DIRECTLY EFFECTIVE
Besides being very directly "to the the point" in most cases, the website is designed to provide a "QuikReference" source, where you can go in and access what is needed for anything from how to solve a problem to how to get out of a "mood" or rut. Recall the times that you needed to remind yourself of what to watch out for or how to do something but needed a quick reference to find it - that's what this is also designed to do - to add another brain/memory for you to access.
You will be guided step by step through the completion of the "process" (or subparts you've chosen), with easy to use forms, providing example and/or alternatives to consider, so that you don't have to think of them from screatch or take a long time and expend a lot of effort.
And you will end up with an overall system of notebooks for quick reference and use, tied together with time and productivity management tools, plus a life that is planned to get what you want in life.
THE RESULTS WILL BE:
1. A CHANGE IN THE WAY YOU VIEW LIFE
2. REDUCTION OR ELIMINATION OF BARRIERS AND LIMITATIONS (and fears)
3. THE DESIGN OF WAYS TO FULLY EMPOWER YOURSELF
4. THE IMPLEMENTATION OF WAYS TO MOST EFFECTIVELY MEET YOUR GOALS IN LIFE
The QuikSummaries (READ THE UNDERLYING BASICS FIRST), the studies and discussions on happiness and how to achieve it will help you to most effectively direct your efforts to what is most productive in life. This website and process essentially combine business methodology with psychology and transformational (but the practical parts) disciplines to achieve very, very high effectiveness in life, as ultimately measured in terms of personal fulfillment, satisfaction, and enduring happiness. .
Recognizing that we cannot provide the best of everything from our own knowledge, we utilize the expertise and systems set up over the years by PRE-SCREENED OUTSIDE RESOURCES, directing you as to when and what to use from those resources (as part of the LearningPlans).
We hope this process, which includes going out and using the resources as suggested, will be the most impactful experience of your life AND, as it has huge ongoing payoffs, that you will put in the effort to be a true master, a LifeMaster, at managing your life for GREATER HAPPINESS.
We'd recommend that you READ THE UNDERLYING BASICS OF LIFE SECTIONS FIRST, as they will give you a "QUIKLEARN" experience, and potentially a basis for looking at some of the individual documents on such things as "Threats and Fear" and other pieces that should significantly alter some of your viewpoints about so-called "negative" things in life.. Life need NOT be difficult, if you apply these LifeMastery processes. To see how the LifeHome is to be constructed and then to rate yourself on where you are at, see The Construction of the Life House - e-page or Word.doc and then Rating of How My Life Is Constructed - e-page or Word.doc
YOUR RECOMMENDATIONS, PLEASE! If you would be so kind, I would ask that you contribute your recommendations on books, websites, and any other resources you have confidence in (with a "why") so that I can potentially add them to the resources recommended herein. Thank you.
TOGETHER we can create something that is extremely and extraordinarily useful, in what matters most in life.
QUICK OVERVIEW OF WEBSITE
For a quick overview of the organization of the website (see other links above):
Look at this page (via the link immediately above) to get the idea of the organization overall, whereas the detail is on the site maps.
SOME ADDITIONAL COMMENTS:
The best way to use the website is to see the LearningPlans that will guide you through a reasonable order in which to learn and be complete in your study of the most important things in life.
The Underlying Basics Part I and Part II contain many of the pieces necessary for the overview of a good part of LifeMastery. They should "ground" you and give you a very good perspective, tying together what it takes to be happy. At some point you would find it beneficial to review the LearningPlans to see in which order you might approach this. An integral part of this whole process is the use of the NoteBooks System, where you would complete the forms to construct LifePlans, a special Reminders/Grounding/Inspiration Notebook, and the AboutMe Notebook, wherein you are recognizing and then doing some redesign and redeciding. Simply look at the forms and decide which you'll do now and which you'll skip over for now. See Site Map Section III for access to these. You might want to look at the Life Management section (see Site Map Section I) and review the Energy Management Packet for some practices that will be beneficial to you. Life Hierarchy, Mission/Purpose (for those who haven't got it down yet), Strategies for Enduring Success (Happiness) and using Tracking LifeMastery Progress (put it in a notebook - see LifeBooks section).
Doing the exercises that are currently in LifePlan will help start you on LifePlan - and there will be many more pieces included in that.
The two pieces in Philosophical could give you some additional grounding.
Getting clear on what you can and cannot control in the Psychological section is a useful process.
See also the "Methods" section of the Psychological section to see which practices might reach out to you.
Of course, the Happiness section should have materials that appeal to most of us.
The tools we are building are such that they will lead to LifeMastery - so we urge you to be thorough and complete and committed.
Some people may want to first peruse the Site Map Master for an overview and then come back to review the overall introduction and other pages. (To return to this page afterwards,
Site Map I - First of the site maps and the key entry point.