YOU ARE NOT THAT IMPORTANT
ONE OF 7 BILLION GRAINS OF SAND
HOWEVER...
ONE GRAIN OF SAND
There are 7 billion other people on this planet, all of the same importance.
You are, in the big picture, just one of them.
YOU ARE NO BIG DEAL IN THIS WORLD
You are no big deal.
You'll never be perfect or all powerful.
You're just another grain of sand, hardly important at all.
And the law of attraction by itself will never get you what you want.
People do not have to do what you want and things don't have to be as you wish them to be.
Get over it!
You're no longer a child and the world does not cater to you and your wishes.
And, compared to themselves, other people don't really think much of you.
You are being absolutely silly, ignorant and childish to be disappointed that you aren't really great and can't be a super hero. You just won't be, period. You have stupid, unrealistic expectations.
Give it up! Get over it!
Time to move on.
The world will not do it for you, nor will anyone else.
No one else will "complete" you. If you're halfassed before a relationship, you'll be the same during and after it.
The world does not owe you anything. Nor does anyone!
You're going to have to go the route that everyone else has to go, you're not above it and no miracle will get you there!
But, fortunately, you do have the greatest machine ever created, and with it you can create a marvelous life. Only you can do it.
No relationship, no help, no wealth, no mysterious forces - nothing will do it for you, but you.
You must be 100% responsible for it all, and not depend on others or circumstances to create it.
That's life!
HOWEVER...
You are infinitely important to yourself. Your experience of life is your whole life. And since that is true, you MUST not squander it.
And, of course, it feels "nice" to have others like or love you. You give that meaning, which is fine - your choice, which is pretty much the choice of all humans.
So, you are given some importance by those close to you and it is important to have others cooperate with you where there is any dependence on them (which is true, of course, of your job, too).
But your importance to them relative to their own importance to themselves is about one ten thousandth. You are an afterthought (though a nice one) to them. They are hugely, as is true for you, preoccupied with themselves and only in the relationship because you give them something (other than just the privilege of bathing in your magnificent light).
You are, in fact, the one who creates all the meaning of all of the things in your life, though you are subject to following the mechanical laws of being human and being in this world. In other words, you make it up yourself all in your head, as there is no implicit meaning to anything or anyone out there. (To be clear about this, read The Meaning Of Meaning - Something To Be Clear About.)
