Alison Armstrong has studied men for about two decades, thinking initially it would only take a year or so. Her insights are invaluable and extraordinary, as are her trainings.   (I saw one woman who I would interpret as being against men and very untrusting absolutely melt into understanding men and being a newly loving and lovable woman.) 

This page, as some of my few other specific resource pages by name, is simply to organize what she offers in a way that is usable for a man and a woman, so that they can access it and reach the level of understanding that makes a relationship work.  (Of course, there is no guarantee that either party will access and follow through on this, but Alison teaches women to be able to manage the relationship and to be accepting of who men really are and that they are "from Mars" - I notice lots of people referring to that idea from John Gray's book Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus, but few seem to really understand it and then practice it.)

While the extraordinarily excellent DVD series (available in CD, too) on the workshop called Understanding Women: Unlock The Mystery increases understanding for anyone, it provided for Jane a means for criticizing David for "not protecting her" - Jane totally misunderstood the idea and no one in the group could correct her viewpoint.  (The Relationship Chronicles Of David And Jane.)

Listen to or watch the samplers and then consider the workshops she has.

I recommend you watch these with others, so that you can expand and further understand, say on a monthly basis, starting with the workshop above (and perhaps you can share the costs).

See, at the end of this page, my recommended "program" to use from her resources.


On her site, go to Free Stuff.  Read articles, listen to audio, and watch video clips.

Watch the videos on the site, plus link into YouTube and enter Alison Armstrong, refreshing the search bar after you watch each item, as the selections to the right will go off on their own path.

Videos(link to videos page) 

Things You Need To Know About Sex

Watch the three parts of the interview on Between The Lines, the 3 clips from How Women Speak, How Women Feel, etc. - and the others listed on that page, to the left.

WORKSHOPS Workshops list and description.

For menA Hero's Challenge:  Being An Extraordinary Man

For men and women:  Go to the site; there are many.


Of course, go to the site, products section to read the descriptions.

Celebrating Partnership with Alison Armstrong™ audio workshop - 
Our newest "workshop-to-go" with 8 hours of audio and companion workbook

Making Sense of Men™ - Book - A Woman's Guide to a Lifetime of Love, Care and Attention from All Men

Celebrating Love™ - CD - Your key to regaining love unrestrained by frustration or failure.  Celebrating Love was recorded live at an event in Los Angeles. 

A+: Understanding Women: Unlock the Mystery™ - DVD or CD Set - She illuminates the core of women’s behavior -- how women think, feel, communicate, and relate to themselves and others. 

In Sync with the Opposite Sex™ - CD Set - Understand the Conflicts. End the Confusion. Make the Right Choices.

Keys to the Kingdom - Novel - A story of love, friendship and rekindled romance in the middle of the kind of crisis that too often ends marriages. 

The Amazing Development of Men™ - CD - 
Understanding men’s Stages of Development will make you more effective in choosing suitable mates, having love and harmony, and getting what you need. This audio presentation will help you avoid disappointment and respond well to the changes in all the men in your life. Learn more about why men do what they do.

The Amazing Development of Men™ Expanded 2nd Edition - CD Set - This CD Set expands upon the original Amazing Development of Men™ CD with three times more information. It also features comments by 12 men, adding their experiences to the Stages of Development. 


Given that people want to go straight to the point, with few of them going through all the material, I recommend you start with the following.  (However, I think it is foolish not to go further and to really immerse yourself in the teachings.  This will, nevertheless advance you quite a bit.

A+: Understanding Women: Unlock the Mystery™ - DVD or CD Set - She illuminates the core of women’s behavior -- how women think, feel, communicate, and relate to themselves and others.  Start there for now.  Contact her organization or me (use email link on home page) if you want more.

Optional:  Read, listen, watch her Free Stuff.