EFFECTIVE COPING STRATEGIES FOR RELIEVING STRESS
TO USE FOR REPLACING THE INEFFECTIVE ONES



When you're stressed in the moment, use an instant reminder to give you better alternatives:  "What To Do When" Instant Reference Page.  When you notice stress and then ask "what should I do?", you reengage your Higher Brain and then have the ability to choose, based on perspective and seeing the alternatives to coping ineffectively with stress, access the
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The most effective stress relief strategies generate mood-enhancing brain chemicals (such as serotonin, GABA, the feel-good hormone oxytocin.)   They also counteract the brain's stress response, stress hormones, and toxic effects and allow for the body's healing mechnisms to work.   Melatonin is a critical chemical to facilitate sleep and healing and the immune system.

Of course, when we're bored or down, we will seek the more exciting:  dopamine generators - but we overestimate how good they will make us feel - and often we will find we end up with more "feel bad" effects, especially over the long term.

When we are stressed our brains are more shut down and less capable, which results in their consistently mispredicting what will make us happy.  (See the list of Happiness Producers and read what produces unhappiness.)   We need to make clear to ourselves what works and what doesn't work, as it will help guide us toward what works and toward the effective self-control that is necessary to produce what we want in life.  

Physical movement
    Exercising, stretching, etc. [Use this for sure, as soon as you can; highest, best,
         and quickest effect!]
    Playing sports
    Getting a massage
    Going outside for a walk [Pop up and do this quickly when notice stress.]
Physical relaxation, recovery
    Deep, slow breathing [A practice to always, always have on hand and do.]
    Complete relaxation [At least once a day, completely.]
    Nap, rest [Very effective in the moment]
Spiritual movement
    Praying or attending a religious service
    Being in nature
Mind movement
    Reading
    Listening to music
    Spending time on a creative hobby
    Meditating or doing yoga [Basic meditation offsets the stress response quickly] -
        Reprograms left brain happiness center and automatic thought screening
           center!
Social involvement
    Spending time with friends or family

Least effective and/or harmful:

       Distraction:
              Gambling, playing video games, surfing the internet
              Watch tv or movies for more than one hour.
       Shopping, catalog browsing 
       Substance use:  Drinking, eating, smoking, drugs   


See our "What To Do When" Instant Reference Page to use when something isn't quite working or you feel bad. 




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