FAMILY
See the Psychology, Overall
TOPICS
BEHAVIORS
Codependency and Enabling
you are asking enough or if you are encouraging dependency or entitlement
thinking/living.
To Do About this? - See if you have co-dependent behavior patterns and then decide if
you really want to do something about it before you pass it on to the rest of the family.
Books: Facing Codependence: What It Is, Where It Comes From, How It Sabotages Our
Lives, Pia Mellody, et.al.
Codependent No More: How To Stop Controlling Others And Start Caring For
Yourself, Melody Beattie - The classic best seller.
RESOURCES
WEBSITES
DrPhil.com
SERVICES
Go to a child psychologist and ask for the best books and resources in your area.
BOOKS
Family First, Phil McGraw
How To Behave So Your Children Will, Too!, Sal Severe - Despite his last name, this book
suggests some very workable behaviors. Being a good parent is not something you can do at
random. Buy this book and use it. Simple and to the point. Should be required reading.