TO MASTER LIFE
WHAT TO DO AND IN WHAT ORDER
FOOTBALL FIELD OF LIFE
INSTRUCTION ON HOW TO PROCEED WITH THE PROGRAM
See How To Proceed On Learning And Implementing. Read this first - or you'll be wasting time.
You will go at each of these until you reach stage I only (approximately 80% proficiency), later returning to refine further but getting alot of results from Stage I.
I have not linked the pieces yet, so you'll have to use the search engine to access any topic.
I have, however, added "paths" that will accomplish all these, so I would recommend that you follow these. Pick your paths listed in The Paths, but I recommend that you first read and implement The Only Sure Path To A Great Life.
THE PROGRAM STEPS
Deciding WHAT YOU WANT (the why and the measure of succeeding, no limits other than "realism")
Based on what you value (and has meaning)
Correcting the list to what you really want
Knowing what actually produces happiness
What a great life looks like
Do I have the capability?
Getting a CONTEXT FOR WHAT WORKS IN THE LIFE GAME (Life's Greatest Lessons, The Three Key Problems Of Life, brief review)
MAKE TIME to have time - Clearing away all that is not vital, having time for everything you want - Huge!
Do I have the time?
Swearing the 80/20 pledge
Swearing the rejuvenation pledge (and the Homeostasis rule!)
Swearing off all attempts to control, correct, criticize, persuade, convince others or to "be right" for no direct purpose
Learn the basics about HOW THE EQUIPMENT WORKS - The body and the brain (and evolution)
And what is realistic and doable
Working "with" human nature, not oppositing it
Willpower and self-control - Limits and what works (learn this here, implement in pieces, below)
Conflicting needs - No problema!
Plug the POWER LEAKS
Basic thinking - Having a Structured Thinking System - Permits you to revise fears, beliefs, make good
choices - Without it, you're screwed!
Fears - Remove all but the fear of tigers
Establishing the safety baseline and what IS versus viewpoint of what is missing
Establishing "sufficient certainty", no longer letting doubt in
Stress management - To "no distress"
Bad thoughts, bad beliefs
Dumping the harmful personas, roles - Allowing zero victim/dependency
Bad conversations - Absolute zero of negative conversations; only zero
No, zero, criticism or make wrong of first yourself and equally of others
Toxic people removed, then the lesser contributors
Stopping tolerating that which is deleterious or not optimal
Don't start anything in any way that you won't complete into a benefit.
Plug the energy leaks from the energy machine
Being out of homeostasis (operating with great dysfunctionality and poor thinking!)
Eliminate THE BARRIERS
Unrealistic or unreasonable expectations - Uncreating the Unhappiness Gap
Plug into POWER - Power = ability to cause a desired result
You can't run until you can first walk
Lots of failure, but of no real consequence
Choose only to do high mastery around your calling and strengths
Basic problem solving (see also Structured Thinking System
Basic good decision making - Good choices make for a good life
Basic emotional intelligence
The power of habits (Devise and implement a bunch of them that are on your side!)
"Filling up", maintaining "psychological energy"
FEEDBACK-ADJUST PROCESS - Continuous (Live The Life Of A Life Champion)
Attention as to what works and what doesn't, and then correcting/revising asap
Using the review/journal daily for observations and replays (
Building a STRONG FOUNDATION to stand on and depend on
Safety baseline, as above
Core operating foundation that is certain, reliable, sufficiently comforting, regardless of circumstances
The strong stated and written philosophy of life
With stands, commitments
Radical (complete) responsibility - The Rational Nurturing Adult
Complete your Postives Portfolio.
Self-compassion - A must. Kind to self.
DELIVERING MORE VALUE
Value delivered to people
Loving, with no or little concern for being loved
Mastering high payoff skills
PEOPLE, PARTNERS that are supporting
For heaven's sake, have a great coach (and maybe a few back up coaches that are not as great)
Only be with positive, contributing people
Make no major commitments without an excellent screening and info gathering process (even if "in love", as your BS detector is at a very low ebb and your view is at the highest unrealistic perceptions level)
LIFEPLAN - No plan, no high success and no high happiness
Procedures and practices that are supporting
Monitoring and feedback systems
Review to remind - Checklists For Running Life, Reminders Notebook
Time management, level 1 (level 2 later)
SUBSEQUENT FURTHER REFINING
Polishing things off to higher mastery levels in areas that contribute
Super time management system
Information organization system
Faster and better reading
Refinement to higher levels - Go back through each step, reviewing, and the refining it another 10+%