TO MASTER LIFE
WHAT TO DO AND IN WHAT ORDER



FOOTBALL FIELD OF LIFE




LIFE
→      SUCCESS




  Goal
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INSTRUCTION ON HOW TO PROCEED WITH THE PROGRAM

See How To Proceed On Learning And Implementing. Read this first - or you'll be wasting time.
You will go at each of these until you reach stage I only (approximately 80% proficiency), later returning to refine further but getting alot of results from Stage I.

I have not linked the pieces yet, so you'll have to use the search engine to access any topic.

I have, however, added "paths" that will accomplish all these, so I would recommend that you follow these.  Pick your paths listed in The Paths, but I recommend that you first read and implement The Only Sure Path To A Great Life.


THE PROGRAM STEPS

Deciding WHAT YOU WANT (the why and the measure of succeeding, no limits other than "realism")
    Based on what you value (and has meaning)
    Correcting the list to what you really want
         Knowing what actually produces happiness
         What a great life looks like 
    Do I have the capability? 
Getting a CONTEXT FOR WHAT WORKS IN THE LIFE GAME (Life's Greatest Lessons, The Three Key Problems Of Life, brief review)
    Models of effectiveness - The person living life as it should be lived - an attainable Model For Us All
MAKE TIME to have time - Clearing away all that is not vital, having time for everything you want - Huge!
    Do I have the time?
    Swearing the 80/20 pledge
    Swearing the rejuvenation pledge (and the Homeostasis rule!)
    Swearing off all attempts to control, correct, criticize, persuade, convince others or to "be right" for no direct purpose
Learn the basics about HOW THE EQUIPMENT WORKS - The body and the brain (and evolution)
    And what is realistic and doable 
          Working "with" human nature, not oppositing it 
               Willpower and self-control - Limits and what works (learn this here, implement in pieces, below)
               Conflicting needs - No problema! 
Plug the POWER LEAKS
    Basic thinking - Having a Structured Thinking System - Permits you to revise fears, beliefs, make good
          choices - Without it, you're screwed!
    Fears - Remove all but the fear of tigers
          Establishing the safety baseline and what IS versus viewpoint of what is missing
               Establishing "sufficient certainty", no longer letting doubt in 
          Stress management - To "no distress"
    Bad thoughts, bad beliefs
          Dumping the harmful personas, roles - Allowing zero victim/dependency
    Bad conversations - Absolute zero of negative conversations; only zero
          No, zero, criticism or make wrong of first yourself and equally of others
    Toxic people removed, then the lesser contributors
    Stopping tolerating that which is deleterious or not optimal 
    Don't start anything in any way that you won't complete into a benefit.
    Plug the energy leaks from the energy machine
          Nutrition
          Non-exercise
          Non-rest
          Being out of homeostasis (operating with great dysfunctionality and poor thinking!)
Eliminate THE BARRIERS
    Unrealistic or unreasonable expectations - Uncreating the Unhappiness Gap
Plug into POWER - Power = ability to cause a desired result
     Basic learning
         You can't run until you can first walk
          Lots of failure, but of no real consequence
          Choose only to do high mastery around your calling and strengths
     Basic problem solving (see also Structured Thinking System
          Basic good decision making - Good choices make for a good life
     Basic emotional intelligence
     The power of habits (Devise and implement a bunch of them that are on your side!)
     "Filling up", maintaining "psychological energy"
FEEDBACK-ADJUST PROCESS - Continuous (Live The Life Of A Life Champion)
     Attention as to what works and what doesn't, and then correcting/revising asap
           Using the review/journal daily for observations and replays (
Building a STRONG FOUNDATION to stand on and depend on
    Safety baseline, as above
    Core operating foundation that is certain, reliable, sufficiently comforting, regardless of circumstances
    The strong stated and written philosophy of life
          With stands, commitments
     Radical (complete) responsibility - The Rational Nurturing Adult
     Complete your Postives Portfolio.
     Self-sufficiency
          Self-compassion - A must.  Kind to self.
DELIVERING MORE VALUE
    Value delivered to people
          Loving, with no or little concern for being loved
    Mastering high payoff skills
PEOPLE, PARTNERS that are supporting
    For heaven's sake, have a great coach (and maybe a few back up coaches that are not as great)
    Only be with positive, contributing people
    Make no major commitments without an excellent screening and info gathering process (even if "in love", as your BS detector is at a very low ebb and your view is at the highest unrealistic perceptions level)
LIFEPLAN - No plan, no high success and no high happiness 
SUPPORTING SYSTEMS
    Procedures and practices that are supporting
    Monitoring and feedback systems
    Review to remind - Checklists For Running Life, Reminders Notebook

    Time management, level 1 (level 2 later)
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SUBSEQUENT FURTHER REFINING

Polishing things off to higher mastery levels in areas that contribute
    Super time management system
    Information organization system 
    Efficiency
       Faster and better reading
       Faster typing

Refinement to higher levels - Go back through each step, reviewing, and the refining it another 10+%







Run the RIGHT DIRECTION

Right goals
Positive enablers
Repeat, input positives
Learn, correct beliefs

Steady, systematic

Run the WRONG DIRECTION

Wrong goals
Fears
Do what hobbles oneself
Repeat negative beliefs, etc.

Hard, painful
QUICKEST RESULTS

Follow the path, starting with this piece: 

The Quickest Life Improvers


What Do I Need To Do To Master Life Management?  The Process Of Becoming Powerfully Masterful

PROGRAMS

Learning, Implementation Programs And Plans - Contents/Links - Particularly The Life Book - Implementing Happiness, which is also a comprehensive program, in an alternative approach.

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