RELATIONSHIPS

Tests

Training

Finding, selecting partner

    Compatibility/Odds/Tests

Building a great relationship

    Overall

    Activities

    Agreements, commitments,

       rules

    Behaviors

    Learning, mastering

    Planning, goals

    Purpose, mission, vision

    Stages of a relationship

Loving, being loved

Exits, closing them

Communication

    Methods, exercises, tools

    Anger and cousins

    Criticism, Blame, Make-wrongs

    For Those who mean alot  

Problems

    Solving

    Conflict resolution

    Exits

Repairing a relationship

Upsets - handling

Resources

Systems

    The Relationship Notebooks

   

PSYCHOLOGICAL WELL-BEING

Detailed Contents Link Page

Overall

    Personality types

Methods, Training

    Calming

    Loving oneself

    Problem solving

    Therapies

    Thought changing

    Training

         Life

         Philosophies

Tests

HAPPINESS

    Empowerment

        Affirmations

     Gratitude

     Happiness producers

         What doesn't work

     Peace of Mind   

SELF ESTEEM/CONFIDENCE

EMOTION MANAGEMENT

     Down

         Getting "up"

     Fear

          Anxiety

          Worry  

     Grieving 

     Mood management 

     Peace of mind

     Stress

     Suffering, struggle

 

LOVING ONESELF

 

MIND MANAGEMENT

     Beliefs

     Calming the mind

            Meditation, relaxing the body

     Experience of Life - The Filters

     Thoughts, internal conversations  

Keeping "balanced" (Vehicles for)

   Reminders

Resources

Systems

SELF DEVELOPMENT

Image creation

   Appearance

   "Brand"

Presentation

Learning skills

Speaking

LIFE PHILOSOPHY

FORMULATING A STRONG LIFE

  PHILOSOPHY -VITAL

The Disciplines (Buddhism, etc.)

LIFE MANAGEMENT

Overall

Commitments for managing life

Creating person want to be

Decision-Making, Breakthroughs

Learning and thinking

    Decision-Making Skills

Power/Wisdom in Life

Practices for a successful life

Problem solving skills

Values and standards

PHYSICAL: Health, Fitness

Monitoring, tracking

Caring for the body

   Teeth

Energy

Exercise

Harmful practices

Illnesses

Nutrition

    Efficient meals

    Supplements

   

Weight

LEARNING PROGRAMS

(For systematic plans)

Confidence

Emotion Management

Health Management

Happiness Management

Mind Management

Psychological Well-Being

Relationship Management

Stress Management

Success Management

Time/Productivity Mgmt.

SUCCESS (IN LIFE)

.

Traits of success

Laws

Practices

Principles

LIFE EDUCATION

Decision-making, breakthroughs

Learning

Problem solving

Thinking

DETAILED SITE OVERVIEW/MAP

AT A GLANCE

IT IS ABSOLUTELY VITAL

TO READ FOOTNOTES

in the "Word" documents on the internet.  Under "view" click print layout or put the cursor over the footnote number.

HOW TO NAVIGATE

Use the Master Navigation Bar, in the middle, to the left, to go to the overall section, where there will be a more detailed navigation bar to use within that area.  (Clicking on any "red" word will link you into that item.)

Note that the area navigation bars have major headings where there is overall content on the subject, while some specific subtopic items are indented, indicating they have been separated out singly so that you can go directly to the subtopic.   Don't forget to click on those major headings for overall content!

See: FINDING YOUR WAY AROUND, if you want more detail.

FAMILY, CHILDREN & FRIENDS

Children

Family

Friendship

BASICS OF LIFE PIECES

(Summary overview pieces)

  Fears, limitations, made-ups

  Creating a new person, power

  Emotional maturity, behaviors

  Decision making and Problem

    Solving

  Life Productivity

  Relationship creation, mgmt.

  Health and physical fitness

  Financial mastery - practical level

QuikGuides will also cover these, but will be like a study guide, several columns in small print, 2-4 pages

SISTER SITES 

LIVE8020 - Focusing on the 20% most important in life to assure happiness and effectiveness.  Not wasting life and time elsewhere. 

THE LIFE UNIVERSITY  - The methods of learning "life" and the resources that can be used at various ages.

EXTERNAL RESOURCES

Websites, books, services, shopping

Helpful resources pre-screened to save time and mistakes!

(Click below to red-link to the detail of whatever section you are interested in)

How to Navigate  Find items of interest   How To Use This Site   About The Site

                                                           

INSTRUCTIONS TO FIND ITEMS OF INTEREST

1.  Find the overall area of interest, e.g. Physical, on the

     left (or on Master Navigation Bar below)

2.  Click on the red underlined link.

3.  Look for the specific item(s) of interest in that

     area. 

4.  Link to the subcategories by using the search

     engine (unless it is already in underlined red).

(Note also that you can go to any master page for each area and find links to the subtopics in that area.  Each subtopic may have some further subtopics - so if you don't find what you want at first just go to the   overall area for each subtopic).

PRETEND EACH SECTION IS A SEPARATE WEBSITE.  

EACH SECTION IS ORGANIZED:

Introduction

Key Readings (To get the key points)

Overall readings

Readings by subtopics

LIFE SUMMARY OVERVIEWS 

READ THESE FIRST FOR PERSPECTIVE AND TO TIE EVERYTHING TOGETHER.

Underlying Basics of Life, Section I

"Letting Go Of Limitations and Fears

And Creating A Whole New Life Game"

  How we learned

  How we need to re-learn

  How to reach our life objective

     What our life objective is

  Right Thinking

  Differentiating Truth vs. "Made-up"

     Perceptions are not reality

     No reality in "Right/Wrong"

     Viewpoints and Awareness

  Managing Thoughts and Emotions

     Limitations and Barriers

  Fear and blame

      Fearless living is possible

      Legitimate Threats

      Where Our Life Energy Goes

      What Drains Our Energy

      Blame - No Validity

  The Means To Higher Levels of Effectiveness

  Creating a Whole New Life Game 

       Setting Goals At The Highest Possibility

Underlying Basics of Life, Section II

"Creating A Whole New Person, Centered, Clear, and Powerful"

  The great trade-off - Majors vs. minors

  Choosing viewpoints

  Measuring where I am in life

  Threats and fear

  Power and success

  "Problems"?

  Who we are not

  Nothing to fix

  Creating your own workable context

  Creating a whole new person 

  Freedom

  Giving up being right and making wrong

  To love thyself

  Mastery

  Clear statements and stands

  Creating the foundation for your life

  The foundation and the notebooks

 

  It really is a game!

                                       

"TOURING" THE SITE AND

FINDING OUT ABOUT THE SITE AND HOW TO USE IT.

Get the most out of the site.

Find out about the Alliance and/or the founder.

See the systems and resources supporting your learning and progress.

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MONEY AND WORK RELATED

SPECIAL INTEREST:

OVERALL:

WHAT TO DO WHEN...! - Instant look up to see what to do right now if there is a problem or decision to be made or solved quickly.

ARTICLES OF HIGHEST INTEREST - Knock some of these off quickly for a rapid education in key items of interest. Scan and choose.  (Being developed..., for now, just see highlights in each section)

PROGRAMS FOR LEARNING - FOR EACH SUBJECT AREA AND KEY PROBLEMS - To learn at level 1, 2, or 3 (your choice, or come back later and follow a program.

RESOURCES - PRE-SCREENED - To save you lots of time and mistakes.

 

For definitions, go to:

Answers.com, Wikipedia.org, thefreedictionary.com 

SUPPORTING ITEMS:

Internal

     Life Notebooks System, plus

          About Me Notebook 

          Who Am I?

External

    RESOURCES - By Area 

       (Books, Sites, Services...)

ABOUT

  ABOUT THE SITE

  ABOUT THE FOUNDER

  ABOUT THE ALLIANCE 

TIME MANAGEMENT, PRODUCTIVITY AND PLANNING

PLANNING

PLANNING .

  Forms

   Systems

   Short term

   Long term

       Mission, purpose, vision

       Commitments

       Goals

The Planning Notebooks 

POSSIBLE PIECES FOR YOUR PLANNING

(Click on link above to go to these)

KNOWING MYSELF

   Who am I? (See separate box.)

   Description of who I am being:  Roles,

      preferences,

   Mission

   Purpose(s)

   Values

   Beliefs

.   A successful life for me is:

  Given my values, beliefs, and purpose, this is

      how I will lead my life...

   What are my competencies: strongest, ok

       Best use of

   What are my weaknesses/challenges

       How manage these for minimal impact

   Good habits

   Do in excess, do that is destructive

   What get rid of?    

MY LIFE

   History, highlights

HOW I NOW SPENT MY LIFE (my time)

HOW I WILL SPEND MY LIFE

MY VISION(S):

   This is  the life I will live

   This is who I will be to live that life

   This is what I will have

THE PLAN

   Opportunities, threats, toxins

   Goals

RESOURCES to use to get where I want to be

TIME AND PRODUCTIVITY

TIME/PRODUCTIVITY.

Productivity

    Overall

    Principles

Time Management

Time systems

Computer Productivity

SYSTEMS

Computerized Time Management

THE LIFE NOTEBOOK SYSTEMS

THE LIFE NOTEBOOK SYSTEMS

(optional)

ABOUT ME Notebook

   The big one

   The small one for overview,

         perspective

FINANCIAL OPERATING Notebook - See Financial section detail

JOURNALING FORMATS - Shift

  periodically for new insights

GROUNDING, REMINDERS,

INSPIRATION NOTEBOOK  

PLANNING (See Planning section)

   Short Term

   Long Term

RELATIONSHIP (See Relationship section)

    Creatine A Relationship

    Our Relationship Notebook

    Relationship Reference

VISUALS Notebook

ABOUT ME NOTEBOOK

(See subpart, below: Who Am I?)

Childhood memories

Childhood frustrations

What you have disowned in

   your childhood

Childhood wounds

Deepest unfulfilled desires

Deepest fears

Unfinished business from childhood

Achievements, victories

Strengths

Weaknesses

WHO AM I?

(Part of the About Me Notebook)

Likes & Dislikes - To do, hobbies, sports, foods, reading, movies, tv, places, ideologies, traits in people, etc. and etc.

Highlights of my life -Experiences, achievements.

Key influences - Rank by impact and importance, what it was, if a who, role played, greatest gift(s)

Motivations

Touched by

Excited by

What angers me

Afraid of

What I like and don't like or dislike about me.

My roles I play in this life

The toxins in my life - People, place, forces, etc.

GROUNDING/REMINDERS NOTEBOOK

Affirmations

Dreams, Visions, Goals

Gratitudes

Perspectives

Philosophy, Values, Standards

Powerful (Being powerful)

Reminders about life

Reminders about me and who I

   am

Stands I'm taking

Strengths/Talents

DETAIL FOR EACH SUBJECT AREA

Review for the subtopic you want and then link to that section.  Each section has its own navigation bar

(Red underlined is a link to the subject area of this site.)

SISTER SITES

LIVING THE 80 20 LIFE - Focusing on what makes a difference for vastly higher effectiveness in life.

THE LIFE UNIVERSITY - Learning life in an effective manner, great approaches.

ABOUT THESE SITES - For more detail.

WORK/BUSINESS/CAREER

Business

    MLM

Career

Work

(See also Self Development.)

FINANCIAL/MATERIAL

Financial planning

    Estate planning

    Retirement

    Spending

Home

    Mortgages

Investing

Taxes

Lifestyle

   Overall

   Travel, vacations

Financial Operating Notebook

FINANCIAL OPERATING BOOK

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SEARCH ENGINE:

DETAIL IN EACH AREA OF INTEREST:

                                                                                                Listing of all subtopics, with links to key subjects  areas.  

AREAS OF INTEREST                    LINK BELOW TO DETAIL IN EACH AREA OF INTEREST  

  DIRECT LINK TO THE AREA                                       LINKS TO SUBJECT AREA BOXES BELOW, WITH DETAIL OF CONTENTS

  NAVIGATION BAR                        

Detailed area navigation

bars are provided when

you go to that section.

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SUBJECT AREAS

FINANCIAL/MATERIAL

    Work/Business/Career

PLANNING

    Possible pieces for plans

PHYSICAL: Health/Fitness

PSYCHOLOGICAL WELL-BEING

RELATIONSHIPS

    Family/Children

SELF DEVELOPMENT

TIME/PRODUCTIVITY 

    Systems

LIFE MANAGEMENT AREAS

LIFE MANAGEMENT OVERALL

   "Underlying Basics Of Life"               Summaries

LIFE - EDUCATION

   Basics of Life Series

LIFE - PHILOSOPHY

LIFE - SUCCESS

CASE STUDIES (LEARN) 

BLOGS:         

              HappyEffectiveLife blog      

           Kahuna Keith's Gratitude Journal

BOOKS/BOOKLETS/SPECIAL SUMMARIES

From this site, coming soon.  If there is one you would like to see prioritized, please email me.

KG: 

Detailed Numbering For Information Overall