MASTERING RELATIONSHIPS
FOR GREATER HAPPINESS
OVERCOMING THE OBSTACLES AND INSTALLING WHAT WORKS

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THESE FORMS
IMMEDIATELY

When you need to resolve something in your emotional make-up and/or resolve something in the relationship, keep copies of these forms in your notebook and/or access them instantly on this page. 

You don't have to remember all this stuff. It is available here any time you want it.
A HUGE PAYOFF

Since relationships are so important and since having a supportive, loving relationship with a person who fits with you is vital, it is worthwhile "managing" this process.  Most people do this haphazardly and with a bit of unrealism - they not only waste time but they don't get the results they could get as quickly as they could get them!!!!
USE THE FORMS IN THIS SECTION AS NEEDED!

A number of these forms would be good to have copies ready for use as issues come up.
We'll have a special section to isolate those forms for easier access without having to remember which to use.
WHAT TO READ FIRST!

At the first part of each section, the pieces in capital letter are to be read first for "grounding" and overall perspective. 

You may also pick and choose other pieces that relate to those or pick ones where you have an interest or a problem.
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Recommended Books, Tapes  
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HOW TO READ THIS SITE
AS A "BOOK"

Alt. 1. Print out the pages.

Alt. 2. Read on the computer screen, clicking on the links to other documents, that are already built in, or going to the particular location specified.  
IGNORANCE IS NOT BLISS! 
THE ROAD MUST BE PAVED WITH KNOWLEDGE,  AWARENESS, &
TRAINING
PROPER AND COMPLETE GROUNDING
IS ESSENTIAL! 
DON'T DO IT HALF-WAY!
See
"ESSENTIAL
QUICK GROUNDING
IN RELATIONSHIPS".
Ignorance does not produce bliss!
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START WITH QUICK OVERVIEW:

    THE INTRODUCTION
        Especially The Barriers to A Good Relationship.


GO STRAIGHT TO AREAS OF INTEREST

              OR

USE THIS SEQUENCEIn this order or pick ones initially most interested in:
  
    HOW TO MANAGE YOUR OWN WELL-BEING - A key skill for yourself and the relationship.
         HOW TO LOVE MYSELF FIRST (In Psych section)
    HOW TO FIRST SCREEN CAREFULLY - A huge payoff!!!!
    HOW GOOD IS MY RELATIONSHIP? - Measure so you can "see" reality.  A great start!
        COMPATIBILITY AND "ODDS" TESTS - Stack the odds in your favor!!
    HOW TO CREATE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP - Know what to do! 
      **HOW TO CREATE THE GREAT RELATIONSHIP 
         USING THE NOTEBOOK SYSTEM - A possible organization system to use to keep
            relevant relationship items, to "track" what is going on, and to remind us of what is
            important.
  ** HOW TO LEARN/BUILD/MASTER RELATIONSHIP - How can one do well without learning?
         SEE THE MINIMUM TO LEARN, QUICKLY 
         Scan: Relationship Q & A 
    THE PRINCIPLES AND RULES OF RELATIONSHIP - Follow these throughout your life!
    HOW TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP - Keeping the relationship working and the loving alive
         and vibrant takes some doing.
    HOW TO FILL EACH OTHER'S NEEDS - Find out, first, what they are, and then how to fill
         them!
  **HOW TO COMMUNICATE WELL - This is the "essence" of relating, and thus of a
        "relationship"!
     ** ELIMINATING CRITICISM, BLAME, VICTIMHOOD - Eliminate the barriers and relationship
              killers!
  **HOW TO LOVE AND BE LOVED - Don't go through life without being as "smart" as possible
         here.
  **HOW TO RESOLVE THE INEVITABLE PROBLEMS - Problems are inevitable, but can
         easily be solved once you've learned and then persisted in applying these. Then you are left
         with only love.
         BEHAVIOR CHANGE REQUESTS - How to ask for a change without criticism or animosity.
         RELATIONSHIP REPAIR - When the signs are bad, get to this asap!


See also Screened Relationship Resources


TO FIND A SUBJECT:

   1.   RELATIONSHIP PAGES NAVIGATION BAR (to the right)
 
                                                        OR

    2.  DETAILED CONTENTS, RELATIONSHIPS

                                                        OR

    3.  The SEARCH ENGINE







                   - If you have any questions.
NAVIGATING
THE RELATIONSHIP PAGES

CAPITALIZED HEADINGS

These are the overall sections  to click on.

SUBSECTIONS (Uncapitalized)

These are separate subsections of special interest pulled out from the overall section immediately above.

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Note:  Each capitalized heading includes overall items related to the subject, while  the  indented subjects are some specific sub-areas of interest.
FIND A SPECIFIC SUBJECT

For when you want to see an overview of the subjects and/or find a specific subject..

             Contents/Links Relationship Section
         Contents/Links Relationship Communication & Problem Solving


     
                                   
 
DO "THE LEARNING SEQUENCE" 

RECOMMENDED FIRST, IN ORDER TO OBTAIN PERSPECTIVE: (To go to the following sections, click on the links.)

1)  INTRODUCTION/OVERVIEW - Go to this page to get the overview.  Includes
    statistics, what causes failure, what indicates success probability.

2) READ FOR OVERALL UNDERSTANDING
    Key pieces to read in sequence to get an overview plus an overall understanding



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OF PARTICULAR NOTE:  (See LINKS BELOW.)


  HOW TO LEARN/MASTER "RELATIONSHIP"
       Gender-Based Differences 

  HOW GOOD IS MY RELATIONSHIP? - Rate it

  HOW TO COMMUNICATE WELL 

  HOW TO LOVE AND BE LOVED 

  HOW TO RESOLVE THE INEVITABLE PROBLEMS
 







IGNORANCE PLUS FEAR = FAILURE

Eliminate both of these barriers in this vital area of your life!   Get smart (quickly) about relationships and about not letting the fear rule.  It will make a huge, huge difference in your life in this most precious, vital area.  Master it, for it is worth every moment of time taken in achieving wisdom that will serve you throughout your life.

Read the Introduction, look at the odds, and then decide what to do next...

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Special sections

QUALIFIED FOR MARRIAGE?
    Marriage Certification! - Before, During
Case Studies - See and learn
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LEARNING/MASTERING

See this learning section! 

Click on the link above.  Also note the video teaching available online
ONGOING GOOD INFLUENCES

Why needed.  Also, try Dr. Laura show!
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