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RELATIONSHIP SECTION

Overview Of Relationship Sections - To see the major sections to go to.
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This section is on intimate relationships.  See Detailed Contents:  Friends and Associates - Note, however, how
many of the items below apply to friends and associates.    
   

 

           
                 





































 




















































  **  - Eliminate the barriers and relationship
              killers!
  ** - Don't go through life without being as "smart"
         as possible here.
  ** - Problems are inevitable, but can easily be
         solved once you've learned and then persisted
         in applying these. Then you are left  with only
         love.

Relationships Main Page
Introduction

LEARN ABOUT REL.

How To Learn/Master Relationship
Essential Quick Grounding
What Is Needed To Be Learned
   In Relationship - Overview
Things We Could Choose To Learn
     As A Couple
Stages of A Relationship  
    What Choose In Stage 2?
Gender-Based Differences 
    What Is Wanted And Needed
       By A Person Of The
       Opposite Sex
Learning: If I Need To Learn
    Something About Intimate
    Relationships 
Relationship Therapy   
Training In Relationships
           
Learning Plans:

Blame, Forgiveness Learning
Learning: Topics To Learn About
   To Enhance Our Relationship
Dick and Carol's Relationship Reading
   List
Behaviors, Realizations, and
   Commitments

See on this site: Alison Armstrong On Relationships, and use her material. 

FIND A RELATIONSHIP

The "Come From" To "Get To" A Great
   Relationship 
My Plan to Create A Partner 
The Relationships Plans, Elements Of 
Being Effective In Finding And
    Developing Intimate Relationships

How To First Screen Carefully 
What To Look For To Create The
   Description Of The Relationship You        Truly Want
   Criteria for Spouse/Partner - An
      Example 
Self Description For Other Person to
   Screen You - Example
My Requirements For A Relationship
Relationship Resume
Compatibility And "Odds" Tests
Paying Attention To The Indicators
Making Decisions About Whether To
   Continue In A Relationship  

Getting The Love You Want - A Brief
   Summary   
The Love Quest, Let The Chemicals
   Reign!?! Or Play To Win?

The Marriage Contract 


HOW IS IT GOING? TEST/MONITOR REL. 

Checkup Test (Quick) - How Is The
   Relationship Doing?
How Good Is My Relationship?
Feedback - Getting It From Others,
    The Reality Check
Rate Your Relationship Level
     And Closeness 
Short Term Monitoring Of How Our 
    Relationship Is Going



CREATE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP

Planning To Create The Relationship
    You Really Want
How To Create A Good Relationship
   The Five Pillars - Constructing A
        Highly Workable Relationship 
        With The Potential To Be Great!
How Create The Great Healthy
    Relationship
Barriers To A Good Relationship
Actions - My Commitment To Actions I 
    Will Take To Have My Desired Level
    of Conscious Relationship 
Action Ideas To Create Our Relationship
    The Way We Want It To Be     
     Briefing Pieces To Try


MANAGE, RUN, KEEP IT GREAT, SUSTAIN IT

The Top Relationship Rules

Filling Each Others Needs

How To Fill Each Other's Needs
A Relationship Is Based On Meeting
    One's Needs, Period!
    Trying To Get The Ungettable 
Our Agreement To Decide on A Vision,
    Commitments, and To Request
    Specific Behaviors 
What Makes Me Feel Most Loved 
    My Caring Behaviors List     
What I Appreciate About You, My
   Partner 


BEHAVIORS  

Why We Do What We Do
Causal Chain For Behaviors
Motivating ourselves  
Emotional intelligence

Healthy and Unhealthy Relationship
    Behaviors   

    Unhealthy Behaviors I Do In My
        Relationship 
    Inflicting Pain To Get Result
    Third Partying Another 
    Rackets
    Exits
    Escape
    Sabotaging Behaviors For
        Relationships
    Impatience And Its Effects
    Co-Dependency?
    Taking Another's Inventory     


BEING LOVING/BEING LOVED

Go to main BEING LOVING page, to see a different listing order with comments for each item.



What Is Love?

    The Love We Fantasize About
    Looking For Love "Out There"
    Is Love Necessary For Happiness?
    Loving "Without" Limits 
    Trusting Another
    Unconditional Loving - Is It Possible? 

What Is Intimacy?

     INTIMACY CIRCLE, The

What Is A "Lovable" Person? 

Lovers 

    Lovers - Being Lovers And Not Just
       Buddies Or How Would You Treat A
       Lover? 

Loving

    Compassion
    Lovingness - What It Is and What It
        Isn't
    Being Romantic As A Way Of Being
    Making Love 

The Loving Woman!

     Loving Woman - The Truly Loving
        Woman
     LOVING WOMAN - THE TRULY
         LOVING WOMAN - BY HER! 
     A Truly Loving, Aware Woman 

How to love myself first

    Love tank - keeping it filled
    Giving To Oneself What Is Needed

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