KEY SUMMARY READINGS, READ THESE FIRST, IN THIS ORDER, then read other capitalized titles:

                   LOOKING FOR LOVE "OUT THERE" - Look for it in the right place.    
                   WHAT IS A LOVABLE PERSON?  - If you want to be loved...  
                   SOLVING THE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM - A way to solve any problem    
(F)               AVOIDING THE RELATIONSHIP EXITS - The ways we avoid relating
              
                   Also, read the other capitalized pieces below:
 
TESTS, RATINGS, MONITORING, QUESTIONNAIRES - To help manage the quality of the
  relationship and to forward it to being more fulfilling and loving.
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THE ART AND SCIENCE OF
MANAGING AND SUSTAINING A RELATIONSHIP

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IF YOU VALUE
YOUR RELATIONSHIP
AND WANT IT TO BE EXCELLENT, USE THIS SECTION!

Anything that is important is worth taking action on and worth making sure that things work well.  The effort spent in "managing" your relationship will provide one of the biggest payoffs of your life!

CREATING THIS AS A
BOOK TO READ

Since a website is something most people don't "read" like a book, it
could be smart to print each piece before reading and then insert it into
the Relationship Reference Notebook
(Site IIB).
(To read footnotes in a document on the internet, under "view" click print layout.)

On each sitemap page, (F) = a worksheet or form to fill out and/or use.

CONTENTS

Read first             KEY SUMMARY READINGS FOR GROUNDING IN THIS AREA

Ratings               TESTS, RATINGS, PERIODIC CHECKUPS, MONITORING - It is vital to do
                             checkups and figure out where the relationship can be enhanced.
                          QUESTIONNAIRES - Some forms to help you list what to deal with, what is
                            going on, etc.

Methods              METHODS TO COMPLETE AND/OR RESOLVE PROBLEMS/ISSUES

Various topics      TOPICS TO CHOOSE FROM AND READ AMONG 
                               OVERALL (other than below, not separately classified)
                               BEHAVIORS - Useful, negative
                               DEVELOPING A GREAT RELATIONSHIP, keys to   
                               RESENTMENTS, RESPONSIBILITY, AND BLAME
                               GENDER-BASED CHARACTERISTICS AND NEEDS - Being ignorant of
                                  these creates many a problem, in unmet expectations and unmet needs
                                  and unworkable behaviors.  Knowing them creates harmony and love.

                          LOVING, BEING LOVED, APPRECIATION, INCLUDING MAKING LOVE

                          PROBLEMS AND PROBLEM-SOLVING/NEEDS-FILLING - An easy, loving way
                               to create needs filling abundance, without upset!!!

Agreements        AGREEMENTS, COMMITMENTS, RULES  (See planning, vision, and goals
                             also.)
                                OVERALL
                                BOUNDARIES

Learning             LEARNING AND MASTERING  

Planning             PLANNING, VISION, GOALS  
                
**Consider using the "Our Relationship" Notebook, as it is an excellent device for reference and for planning and creating the relationship you really want. 
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HOW TO READ THIS SITE
AS A "BOOK"

Alt. 1. Print out the pages.

Alt. 2. Read on the computer screen, clicking on the links to other documents, that are already built in or going to the particular location specified. 

See also: How To Use This Site.
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LEARNING MODULES

KEY PIECES IN EACH SECTION:

In each section, the key pieces are in capital letters at the top of each section.  Read those as an overview of the section.
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