MARRIAGE CERTIFICATION
DON'T MAKE A MISTAKE AND INCUR THE GREAT COST

We don't "see" the mistake we are making, unless we engage in a process that virtually guarantees it!

This process assures that you are ready and that your potential partner is ready - and changes the odds of succeeding from 7% to 95%!

This is so important that we must remember and apply the relevant rule (and discipline) to avoid the great cost of making a significant error:


THE CARPENTER'S RULE

MEASURE TWICE, CUT ONCE


WHAT IS "MARRIAGE CERTIFICATION"?

Three elements:

1)   ADEQUATE EDUCATION/GROUNDING - See Learn/Master Relationship.
2)   SPECIFIC, STRONG COMMITMENT IN WRITING - See The Marriage Contract at least. 
     Also, see the Agreements/Rules section under Create/Design.
3)   CERTIFICATION FROM A "PROFESSIONAL" - And the final certificate granted and sign by a qualified expert (not as a guarantee, but as a "looks like the homework is done and these two people will work together to make a good relationship come about.  (If it could be approved by John Gottman that would be the ultimate.  Accordingly you would make sure that you kept The Positivity Ratio