This is what is very attainable for us all. Of course, it would be necessary to put in the proper learning efforts and installation of the best ways of living life. Note that the order of this is designed to give the necessary overviews first, and thus we will drill down later into each of the areas to the degree that we need to to implement life successfully.
Learning and implementing the critical thinking skills: Reasoning, fact finding, and clear Learning and implementing the learning skills. Coping strategies set up for when "correction" is needed (failure is seen as a lack of proper
strategy, not as a fault in oneself)
No criticism/judgment of self or others. (Has learned "no fault, no blame") Vital, a must. Appreciate/See the abundance of what is; no focus on what isn't, as it is all acceptable Use only clean, true, positive languaging and is impeccable with his word(!!!).
A very defined, clear philosophy of life.
Living life by what I set up as my standards, rules, and values. Beliefs refined to what is workable and true. Has re-examined and addressed the key beliefs.
Living what works for happiness
Establishes a foundation of "how much is enough" - and has the rest be bonuses - secure in
Builds based on "doing" values, and correspondingly experiencing "accumulated value", not based on "conditions" (wealth, approval, achievement)
No emergencies or "not being far enough" or "not good enough"
Skillful time management - Without which you will never have enough time to do what works
Living by a plan
Daily planning/decisions, specific pre-planned alternative schedules
Organized (spends enough time to assure it)
Many "days off", rejuvenation time
Energy and physical resource management
This model does suggest that we need to develop the life skills but there is also a key viewpoint that is necessary to make it all work: the no-criticism, no-fault, no-blame understanding - you cannot be happy without learning and fully understanding this as a basic for how you live your life!!!! This viewpoint leads to many of the individual items above that would not exist fully without this wisdom. Knowing you have a firm foundation for your life is absolutely essential - so you can have high certainty about your life and yourself plus a "this is more than enough" understanding - and that everything above that is just a bonus. With this, you'll eliminate 99% of what we make ourselves unhappy about. Part of that sound base is knowing that you are no longer dependent and that you are self-sufficient, so you're not being buffeted about by what other people do or don't do. You cannot be happy living a life involving the latter.