- Virtually everyone has part of what is needed, but most are not completely there
- Knowing the necessary elements
- What such a person looks like, acts like
- How to integrate the elements
- Where to start
- The road to building a powerful, effective, happy human being
- Your choice
DOES ONE NEED TO BE ALL THREE?:
POWERFUL? EFFECTIVE? HAPPY?
Yes! Yes! Yes!
ALMOST EVERYONE HAS PART OF WHAT IS NEEDED, BUT MOST ARE NOT YET COMPLETELY THERE
The "Powerful" But Narrow
Some people are powerful but from a limited, narrow wisdom base.
They can run major corporations, and often can use force and (good or bad) manipulation well, and they have the skills that are needed to do all that. They may be effective in the area they are focused on, but family, health, and real, enduring, long term happiness are almost always not fully in existence. These people are simply missing awareness in certain key areas, although they often think they have no limitations - but the best indicator of the limitations one has are the actual results in one's life. Where there are results, there first are causes and those causes are created from a base of limited training/awareness!
The Well-Meaning But Less Powerful
At the other end, are those souls who want to 'do good' in the world and want to improve themselves, but who are relatively ineffective (or have very limited effectiveness) and not powerful.
The results that show up in their lives, although they may tend to be healthier, are lack of prosperity and abundance, inability to cause great things to happen, and the lack of a strong, well-developed power (i.e. not showing the ability to get more things done more effectively).
Neither Is Fully Aware Of What Is Needed
If they were, they would seek it out and do it - and they'd live much greater, happier lives at the level they can only dream of now.
This site is about putting all these together and creating the progress down the pathway to where you really want to be.
KNOWING THE NECESSARY ELEMENTS
One cannot achieve happiness if one does not know what the of elements of true happiness are and/or if one is not effective and powerful, with full awareness of what makes a human being produce great results in life. The elements of being a powerfully effective human being are named in Power In Life.
WHAT ONE LOOKS LIKE, ACTS LIKE
One cannot develop into a more life-powerful person without a clear picture of what one "looks like" and how one behaves and moves. The clear prototype is laid out in the piece called The Powerful Person.
INTEGRATING IT ALL
In this we intend to integrate what are ordinarily considered the two extremes, with happiness on one end of the spectrum and being powerful on the other. However, with wisdom we can have both, without any conflict whatsoever. To accomplish this we must gain some fundamental knowledge on how to manage life.
We'll take the well-meaning, the awareness-seeking, the growth-seeking strategies, and we'll sift out the less effective ones. This means that we'll still need to be masters of managing our beliefs and our minds if we are to have happiness and not have limiting barriers and/or counterproductive living habits.
Then we'll integrate it all based on "business" ("get the results") concepts, add the means and knowledge - and you will absolutely achieve enduring, unconditional happiness.
WHERE SHOULD ONE START? AT THE CORE, THE MIDDLE, OR THE END?
One may choose to go into
1. Individual areas - Shore up areas that one could use more strength and
wisdom in, or
2. The whole program - One can choose to do the whole program or
3. Both, but in flexible order - one can do both (which would just change the
order in which they are done, wherein one can go in an out and do
pieces but fill in all the pieces when they come back to complete the
What's more effective? (Pick the one you think is best.)
1. To teach someone to run really fast with lots of extra weight on?
2. To dump the weight first (i.e. eliminate the barriers and what's holding
3. To do all of the above but in a systematic, orderly, thorough manner?
Some people want to learn to run faster but fail to realize that they must dump the extra weight first (barriers and psychological heaviness).
While we are talking about life here instead of track, it is imperative that people realize that getting rid of the barriers is necessary before the great motivational speech can be effective.
And obviously building the skills (awareness and knowledge) and having the right supporting structure help to increase effectiveness. That structure includes pieces from time management, the people who one is around, a great plan, and elements that run all the way to having "partners" or coaches.
And, finally, we'll apply certain principles and specific means to create effort effectiveness and time effectiveness, so that we will multiply our impact so greatly that we'll creae a life that is many, many times better than before.
THE ROAD TO BUILDING A POWERFUL, EFFECTIVE, HAPPY HUMAN BEING
There is only one road to follow and these are the parts to the road.
This is what appears to be necessary to build a powerful base: (These are all handled on the site.)
#1. MOTIVATION - Enough to dedicate sufficient time and effort, together
with a commitment (see the end of this piece).
#2. REMOVING BARRIERS AND LIMITATIONS, in order to achieve:
#3. A PLAN of how to get where you want to be
on where you are now (looking, without denial)
on where you want to go - and what you really want
Goals with action plans
#4. BUILDING THE NECESSARY SKILLS in the relevant areas
This must be completed. So many stop too soon.
#5. Installing a powerful SUPPORTING STRUCTURE to assure continuity
and full effectiveness
Absolutely necessary for complete life success is COMPLETING the process, instead of leaving some pieces unfinished where they constantly get in the way and/or limit you.
This should be obvious but most people walk around with extra weights, not knowing how to "run" efficiently and with alot less effort - sometimes
not even knowing that there are:
1. Better ways, and
2. How great a life is actually possible - one that is not just "doing well"
but actually being incredibly happy and fulfilled and live a life of ease
IT'S YOUR CHOICE
___ Go in and handle specific events, problems, or areas of apparent need.
You're perfectly welcome to use this website this way and it will
help substantially, in a quick, effective way.
This is often driven by an "event" or a "problem" as the motivator.
People will tend to "feel better" and then discontinue before
actually completing to get the maximum payoff - the maximum
payoff comes from seeing and dealing with the actual causes that are the base of the problem or event occurring. Eliminating and
changing those has greater long term benefits.
___ Handle and complete all the foundation for life effectiveness and
This is the way that makes the most sense, but few do it. It takes 5
or so hours most weeks and a sustained effort over time (a year?)
to complete. An alternative that takes some money is to do a few
concentrated weekends with a special completion time.
___ Something in between, with good benefits
Which will it be?
IF YOU'RE SERIOUS AND AIMING FOR THE MAXIMUM...
Start with familiarizing yourself more fully with the website so you can access it easily. Consider going through the major sections and reading the underlined, capital-lettered writeups at the top of each section to get an overview. Then follow the learning programs (if the final modules are not done yet, just read the those overview and select other readings as per your interest ). It is best to take the tests to see where you are now, to establish a baseline for measuring your progress later. Take the test a few times during the process, to get a sense of progress. And before you let yourself think you are finished, take the tests to objectively verify that you have sufficiently mastered what is necessary. Your life will never be the same - and will be beyond any level you actually thought possible (due to the beliefs in our culture).
IF YOU WANT TO GAIN A SUBSTANTIAL BENEFIT IN SOME AREAS OR TO SOME DEGREE...
Peruse the site, as above, but hit only the key areas you want to and read do the most impactful, which are identified throughout.