The basic test to determine:
1. Where you are actually are in life
2. Where you want to go and
3. What you are committed to.
Take this first one and note any chinks in your armor that may be worth repairing:
WHAT LEVEL IS GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME?
You're "doing well" and things are good. But are you almost certainly living your life at its full potential for happiness?!?
So, the question to ask yourself is: (Pick one.)
IS 30%, 50%, OR 80% GOOD ENOUGH IF YOU CAN HIT 90-95+%?
This is good enough for me:
___15% ___30% ___ 50% ___ 65% ___80% ____90+%
The secret is completing each vital area such that you can rate yourself at 90+% in all of the following. This is the path to a life of grace, ease, fulfillment, and enduring happiness.
Rate yourself and then decide to COMPLETE whatever is not completed, in order to live the life you love!!! And to love the life you live!!!!!
This is is percentage level I am at compared to what is reasonably attainable:
%
____ Free of limiting beliefs and barriers (hesitance, fear, doubts...)
____ Free of stress and destructive emotions
____ Using systems for easing and/or running life excellently
____ Great health (live until 100 at least)
____ Great Relationships (No anger, blame; just loving and accepting)
____ Incredibly strong and clear life philosophy
____ Results that are showing up in my life are exactly what I want
____ Enduring happiness (not short term) experienced virtually all the time
(See Site I, Psychology, Happiness section for clarification)
____ TOTAL divided by 8 = ____ AVERAGE PERCENTAGE OF LIVING
LIFE FULLY
If you want, you can space down to a more specific but short list that lays out the sure signs of the potential to gain great value from the process on this site (and the resources it points to).
IS THIS OLD LEVEL REALLY GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU???
If so, forget it and just go watch more tv and drink a little.
THE "SURE SIGNS" TEST
See if you have any of the "sure signs" of lack of sufficient structure to attain what you want in life. All of these are unacceptable - and, if anyone is accepting them, then that person is excusing this with an untrue story of some sort.
___ Overweight (BMI of 25 or above)
___ Using any substance at all to alleviate stress (food, alcohol, smoking, drugs of
any sort)
___ Using any substance to adjust body down to (or up to) appropriate level
___ Any part of body that is functioning at a lower level than is healthy
___ Unfulfilling work
___ Lack of intimate relationship knowledge
___ A temper, impatience, irritability
___ Worry, anxiety, tensing, etc., that is more than quickly passing
___ Tension in body, still muscle, joint pain, or any out of balance indication
___ Lack of sufficient sleep (inability to regulate time or emotions or body)
___ Lack of truly rejuvenating time and/or any feeling of being rushed
___ Lack of results in any key area of life (income, assets,
___ Others react to you differently than you would like
___ Areas of your life left incomplete or in disarray (these are indicators of
something else awry)
___ Not feeling good about life and/or about oneself
___ Not having clear plans for the future
___ Any habits that are destructively stress-relieving (tv, internet browsing, "soft
addictions", etc.)
