The chemicals of romance create an illusionary viewpoint! Don't fall for it! (And use the screening processes in Finding/Selecting Your Partner!!!)
want to save alot of effort and be alot happier - priceless!
is the chemical "fooler" stage! Inject rationality along the way, while still enjoying the
TO HAVE AND MAINTAIN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP
Beyond the romance stage, if you want a long term relationship, you must create the "bonding" chemicals and keep them coming. (Many people lose sight of this - and they stack the odds against themselves!)
- Generate the bonding chemicals, as they have a remarkable compelling impact.
These are a must for maintaining attachment.
But the crucial key to creating and maintaining a worthwhile, loving relationship is to make the right decision for Stage 3 of relationships. (Note that you should have 1) selected the right partner and 2) assured that the partner will be "willing" to do whatever it takes, as tested in the "MARRIAGE CERTIFICATION" process.)
- It is critical you are aware of these beforehand and that you heed the warnings and
make the right choices. The right choice helps to dramatically increase the odds of
a loving, successful relationship!