THE FEAR OF FAILURE
A DRAMATIC, VERY HARMFUL MISCONCEPTION



Yes, I know, you've heard this one before:  There is no need to fear failure, after all it is a learning tool!

But eliminating the fear of failure takes a lot more understanding and processing than that.  In fact, you should thoroughly understand this and then you'll have so much more freedom in your life, plus alot more enrichment and adventure!

THE IMPERATIVE TO WIN!

Our culture says winning (even being #1) makes us worthy, admirable, lovable, etc. and losing is a disgrace or at least a horrendous shortfall, especially if it occurs more than once.  And if we lose, then we're not liked or loved (in our minds).

We should redefine winning though as "doing your best, not being the best".