DOING "THE BUILD" FOR GREATER SUCCESS IN LIFE
THE RIGHT WAY: THE PRINCIPLE OF "BUILDING" A LIFE
"We tend to want to jump up to the higher stuff when we have not yet built the platform upon which to stand. The way to create a great life is most surely by building it, one building block at time. Note that this is the way to guaranteeing a great life, rather than hoping or randomly trying to learn what to do in life!"
When we miss a building block, we are stuck with recurring problems and bad experiences that, if we had built thoroughly, we need not have!!!!
But it doesn't work that way. We just made up all these "forces", entities, and/or ways things would happen in order to have an explanation of how things work - one that is totally wrong, though it does "fill the gap" so that we do not experience the discomfort of not knowing. Read The Believing Brain to see how and why we do this! (You must be convinced that what you "think you know is the truth" might not be the truth if it has not been rigorously challenged. Or, as taught by a professor teaching history, don't rely on any explanation without using critical thinking, both in relation to the facts AND to the reasoning an logic.)
Life is easy if you do it the right way. It is hard if you do it the wrong way, having to keep revising, rebuilding, and only correcting when we get bad results - though some people just keep on doing what they were doing, hoping that somehow they'll get a different result or that things will magically work out on their own (though the "good fairy").
This "core" is analogous to the foundation of a house. It must be build solidly or the house will not have structural integrity (and you won't either). A strong wind will blow it off the foundation.
And in order to even start on the foundation, you've got to have an architectural design and the directions on how to build the home (a plan). This is, in life, called LifePlan. (Click on that link to see what it looks like.)
TO BE CLEAR - THIS IS WHAT YOU DO TO "BUILD" A GREAT LIFE!
Although this may be a bit repetitive, let me lay this out, perhaps, more clearly.
Convince yourself more deeply, be clearer
Build a blueprint (Nobody succeeds without doing this basic.)
Identify what you want to build to arrive at happiness.
Do a quick version of the key elements of your LifePlan. (Consider the
"medium plan" to start with.)
Build the strongest, most empowering belief system, as that is what runs your life!
Nothing is more powerful in your life. Nothing runs your life more. Nothing has
more powerful effects on the quality of your life and happiness. A belief
system based on reality and what actually works creates incredibly great
emotional value in your life. Nothing allows you to be more effective in life and
allows you to get all of what you want!
It is the foundation for setting up the rules, the way you lead your life, what you
do that will create the best results in life, your perspective, living unconditionally
The process is a reconstruction of what you originally learned the wrong way,
when you were unable to know better, so it takes time, but has the biggest
payoff per hour of effort of anything else you can do with your time.
Build a core around which to run your life
A decided pre-set "schedule" of how you'll run each day!!!
A decided way of having stress-free days. (Learn about stress; do The Pause
Build-in a time to review, a time to renew, a time to learn
A pre-set day/time to review what is happening and to plan, every single day,
week, month, quarter, and year. (No review, no reflection...no progress...no
Complete large chunks, days set aside for preparation (including learning) - Often
left out, so people end up stopping short of being prepared well and
completing their learning and competencies.
WHERE TO, FROM HERE?