CREATING HAPPINESS NO MATTER WHAT
HAPPINESS NEED NOT BE "CONTINGENT"!
I will be pulling this together into a whole. For now, you can read the basic underlying pieces that create the understanding of why and how you can do thisl
<--- Read these pieces! (And the pieces they lead you to!)
As part of creating it so that we no longer engage in the unhappiness creators and as part of The Fear Management Program - Tests, Readings, we get rid of the false beliefs that create unhappiness and we learn to only react to what is actually happening, like the zebra grazing calmly after it runs from the tiger and the tiger is gone. We learn not to create fear of fear - and get rid of the belief that worry or fear helps to prevent a problem! Though the fear signal may happen in a true emergency threat, we essentially live in Fearlessness.
LIVING UNCONDITIONAL, NONCONTINGENT HAPPINESS
Getting rid of the 99% of fears that are based on falsely construed premises and not worrying about the other 1% that is out of our control, we eliminate most of our "negative" experiences.
By no longer criticizing ourselves or leaving our personal fulfillment and care to the whims of other people or circumstances, we create the self-care and do the strategies that have us being independent, yet appreciating the bonuses when we do get them, of having to hold ourselves in tension and/or fear and/or uncertainty waiting to see if others will approve of us or do things for us. We essentially exercise our full power to create all the happiness we want - and once we are filled, then whatever else we get is simply a bonus, for which we are highly appreciative.
This is the way to live and is a very attainable way to live:
Self-fulfilled. Personally powerful. Independent. Free.
Won't you join us in the process?