YOU MUST KNOW WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE
IF YOU ARE TO ACHIEVE WHAT YOU REALLY WANT IN LIFE
There are a number of examples here. Note them. Choose one to use and then develop that one. Then come back later and choose another top priority one.
These are all achievable and suggest what you can do with your life to live it very well!
You are asked to formulate your goals and what you want in life. But how do you know what that is unless you have a clearer picture of the options and information to input.
For instance, you know you want to be happy, so you need to know what that looks like in a real life, real person situation. And you want to have enough detail so that you can discern what it takes.
It is very costly timewise to reinvent the wheel. It is better to see what wheels have already been invented and to start from there. Plus, realize that your knowledge is not yet sufficient as you do not have enough inner wisdom to guide you, other than basic reasoning and a positive feeling toward something.
You seek models (and mentors), examples of people who have arrived at the general state of being that you want, plus compiled descriptions of what works in life . And as you flesh out the details you offer yourself opportunities to choose what works - and to see what works, so it is actually a choice.