"Not responsible" - Approval, happiness, results are
from "out there"
Others must fill me up, loneliness, passive, try to control others to get this, sell their souls
Inappropriate and ineffective "relief", causes
Hold stress, unaware, passive victim,
Right/wrong viewpoint, criticize, judge
See what don't have, expecting too much
Express missing, fear it unrealistically.
Object to reality, wish otherwise, bemoan
Unrealistic expectations, standards, perfectionism
See as "faults" and indications of "worth"